feat(cli,runtime)!: the upgrade ceremony opens — v17 and 18.0 databases take it, and a server serves only a database it created or one the ceremony certified (18.x steps 5 and 6)

feat(cli,runtime)!: the upgrade ceremony opens — v17 and 18.0 databases take it, and a server serves only a database it created or one the ceremony certified (18.x steps 5 and 6) #23116