Best practice for handling insertion/deletes with _dataDiff and polygonLayer

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Hi,
I have an app that has a polygon layer with about a hundred thousand entities. I get frequent updates to the data, including additions and deletions. what is the best way to handle the rerendering of the layer? I saw that deck.gl has a _dataDiff function but I don't see a way to insert/delete frequently without performance degrading. What options are there?